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Growing Pains: Week 9

        “Growing Pains”

Evolution- the gradual development of something, especially from a simple to a more complex form.

Proverbs 4:7 The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.

The Growing Pains of  becoming something that you’ve never been is painful, irritating and frustrating, yet so rewarding.  Self development in your spiritual walk with God is necessary to receive his promises that are yes and amen. God never chose us to live a mediocre life, he chose us to prosper and be in good health, even as our soul prospers.

When I was in corporate america, my boss would give me 4 assessments a year to evaluate my growth as a leader, to ensure that he was maximizing my potential. He would applaud my strengths but would have me focus on strengthening my weaknesses. It was growing pains because sometimes I got frustrated with seeing the same weaknesses written out, during every assessment.

I decided that I was ready to grow one year, so I focused on making those areas my strengths. During that season, I receive a promotion every year until I retired. The point of my story is that you have to give your faith a focus  & get to work so your promotion can come. God is requiring more of our time in prayer, study & meditation in this season, so we can Grow to our next level. Your promotion & breakthrough as a Kingdom Wife can only come through your obedience to God.

Psalms 75:6 For promotion cometh neither from the east, nor from the west, nor from the south.

God needs you to be a Winning Wife & the only way to win is to evolve from who you are to Becoming The Kingdom Wife he’s equipping you to be.  Stop ignoring God leading you to a place called isolation. The seperation is only for you to experience a manifestation. Embrace the daily discipline and spiritual workout so you can receive your promotion.

Growing is painful because it requires:

  • Change
  • Discipline
  • Daily Regimine
  • A Daily Spiritual Workout
  • Owning Your Truth
  • Spending time with God
  • Focus your faith on your weakness
  • Embrace your “Growing Pains”
  • Receive Gods conviction/correction to experience your manifestation.



  • Gods Grace
  • Righteous Living
  • Overcomer
  • Winning By Faith


Are you participating in your Wife Evolution?

What are your weaknesses?

What are you doing differently to get different results?

Share your journey with us so we can GROW, GLOW & GO Together




  • Mona

    March 2, 2019 at 3:15 am

    Yes, I’m participating in my wife evolution.

    My weakness is simply the desire to be loved and not have it at this point and time. I’m about to celebrate a couple of milestones in my life and it would be AWESOME to have my King along side of me clapping and cheering me on… BUT what’s really awesome is that he could be watching me from a far!! And IS silently praying, pushing and cheering me on.. Now, that’s fannnntastic! Thank You Lord, I know he’s praying for me!

    I am focused!! I KNOW my worth and who I am in God, with that being said… The Entire game has Changed!! No more settling… Its all about the Kingdom for me. I represent the kingdom of God so I move differently. No Bad and Bougie… I’m Bold and Surrendered! God has been giving me Awesome Revelation and where he has me at the moment, its only up from here. What’s different? I’ve been elevated in the Spirit… and it feels so Good. I’ve never known a love like this. ❤️🙈

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