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Kingdom Wife Bootcamp > 21 Day Fast  > Day 14: Effective Communication

Day 14: Effective Communication

James 1:19
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.

ONE OF THE TOP REASONS FOR DIVORCE IS MISCOMMUNICATION AND MISUNDERSTANDING.
YOU HAVE TO BE QUICK TO LISTEN, SLOW TO SPEAK AND SLOW TO BECOME ANGRY. LISTEN TO WHAT CONCERNS HIM, EVEN IF YOU FEEL AS THOUGH HE’S WRONG. MAKE ADJUSTMENTS TO MEET HIS NEEDS AND GOD WILL ADJUST HIM TO MEET YOURS. LEAVE ULTIMATUMS AT THE DOOR AND AGREE TO DISAGREE. STOP OVER SPEAKING EACH OTHER AND SELFLESSLY MEET THE NEEDS OF YOUR HUSBAND. KINGS ARE DRIVEN BY RESPECT AND HONOR, IT’S THE WAY THAT GOD WIRED THEM. BOTH SPOUSES UST RESPECT AND HONOR ONE ANOTHER BECAUSE YOU ARE ON FLESH. IF YOU FEEL AS THOUGH YOUR HUSBAND IS OUT OF ALIGNMENT, KEEP PRAYING SPECIFICALLY IN THE AREAS OF HIS WEAKNESS. LOVE COVERS A MULTITUDE OF SINS. COVER HIM UNTIL GOD DELIVERS HIM.

WIFE ASSESSMENT DO YOU GIVE ULTIMATUMS? DO YOU OVER SPEAK OTHERS, WHILE HAVING CONVERSATIONS? ARE YOU FOCUSED ON GETTING YOUR POINT ACROSS THAT YOU NEVER TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS?

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Comments:

  • Christine

    January 21, 2019 at 1:54 am

    James 1:19 – miscommunication and misunderstanding…I will learn to trust in God even during hard times…..not to be obsessed with ensuring that we are heard and understood in order to get what we want… I will refuse to let anger control me, although its a human emotion but shouldn’t let it to control you.

    DO YOU GIVE ULTIMATUMS? No. Never.
    DO YOU OVER SPEAK OTHERS, WHILE HAVING CONVERSATIONS? No. sometimes with my family though but rarely.
    ARE YOU FOCUSED ON GETTING YOUR POINT ACROSS THAT YOU NEVER TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS? No. I always listen.

  • Queen Ebonee

    January 21, 2019 at 5:36 am

    I know communication is something I need to work on . . I’m usually the one that does not want to communicate and shuts down and give the silent treatment. I know for a relationship to work I must learn how to communicate effectively.

    DO YOU GIVE ULTIMATUMS? No
    DO YOU OVER SPEAK OTHERS, WHILE HAVING CONVERSATIONS? No
    ARE YOU FOCUSED ON GETTING YOUR POINT ACROSS THAT YOU NEVER TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS? No

  • Queen Angilene

    January 21, 2019 at 8:19 am

    sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. This was something I realize since last year that I have been struggling with. I had this verse embedded in my head…. however, I let my emotions get the best of me one day and unleash. Things haven’t been the same since. I’m learning now, to be slow to speak, quick to listen and slow to wrath. I’m praying that God will restore the outcome of the wrath I unleashed.. In the meantime I’m working on me becoming better and a Genuine Kingdom Wife.

    WIFE ASSESSMENT DO YOU GIVE ULTIMATUMS? No
    DO YOU OVER SPEAK OTHERS, WHILE HAVING CONVERSATIONS? Yes, at times.
    ARE YOU FOCUSED ON GETTING YOUR POINT ACROSS THAT YOU NEVER TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS? I listen, but still want to get my point across. I’m working on all of my faults concerning these things and more.

  • Mona

    January 24, 2019 at 1:24 am

    This is one of my weak areas… Communication. Although, I wouldn’t have been so willing to admit this before now. I’m great with listening, making you feel validated and important. But when It gets heated, I’ve struggled with having to get my point accross… Annnd, If You were to hurt me, I could cut you off , as If I never knew you. That’s so dysfunctional, And it has cost me on several occasions. Then, I’ve noticed in love relationships, I’ve become super lieneant and not knowing how to fully express myself, or just being scared to express my True Opinion, I’ve been very accepting of some abusive behaviors, and inturn have suffered. I’m greatful for KWB, because it causes me to have to search deep within myself! Father, Please help me in this area that I struggle with… I want to look like you in every aspect of my life. I denounce the spirit of know it all and the need to be correct. Please help me to walk in humility and love at all times. Please fill my mouth with kind soft words that will build and not tear down and please take away the spirit of offense, help me to only need and look for validation from You. My Faith, Hope and Trust is in you. Thank You for every relationship and help me to operate in Your Spirit, In Jesus’ Name. Amen! 🙏

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