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Becoming The Helpmate A King Needs

“His Helpmate”

The Ministry Of Marriage requires you to operate inside of the Kingdom of God. It’s ok to desire a husband, children, house & conpanion but understand your role as a Kingdom Wife is to be a helpmate.

Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make
him a helper suitable for him.” Gen 2:18

Helpmate- God created a “help” for Adam, and this helper was “meet” (suitable, fit, proper, adaptable and complimentary for him.

That doesn’t mean that you don’t have a life or purpose, it simply means that if you become what a King wants and needs before he shows up, your promotion will come. A wife must be positioned in submission in order to have a successful marriage. God created the husband to lead, provide, protect snd love his wife like Christ loves the Church.

A husband needs a Queen who is suitable, adaptable & complimentary to him. Your relationship with God is teaching you to serve God faithfully so he can mold you into a helpmate. Your submission as a servant to God will teach you to let go of your will & surrender to Gods perfect will for your life. You may be asking “what about me”? God knows how to bless you exceedingly, abundantly, above all that you can ask or think. He will grant you the desire of your heart but he gives you free will to choose so choose wisely.

What Every Man Needs In A Helpmate!

  • Pray for him
  • Play with him (fun companion)
  • Plow with him (help build a family, faith, finances)
  • Promise To Grow with him
  • Serve him as he serves you
  • Stay with him (stick out tough times with him)

You are well equipped for the job, pull down the strongholds, brokeness, dysfunctions and cycles that are holding you back from promotion. Live Holy & Righteous as you serve God with a pure heart and no wrong motives and your promotion will come.

Wife Assessment:

Are you a faithful servant to God?

Do you serve your family and friends?

Do you complain about your husband not meeting your needs so you stop meeting his?




  • Mona

    March 2, 2019 at 2:59 am

    Yes, I am faithful to the Lord, and I’ve always forund myself in a place of servitude. I know that as a wife I am a Helpmate, Naturally I am a pusher… I Build, Uplift and Encourage. I am so excited to see how I will display these traits as a wife. I wonder, what my husbands business, gifts etc are? How will I be fused into them? I know its going to be Awesome!! 🙈 Praying until he cones… Lord, you know just who he is, I submit to you until he is revealed.

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